Your Mouth

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  Your Mouth.....

  Close it! Here's why; because it's true you know..."I'm made of rubber your made of glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you!"
  Not in the literal sense of course.  But when you verbally massacre someone it puts you on a frequency of negativity, anger and dislike.  Your dislike of them invites others to dislike you, it happens cosmically. Realize that your audience, who may seem captivated, are all thinking the same thing "what's that witch saying about me?"  I've struggled with this.  I have been guilty of this.  To this day I have a difficult time turning a deaf year to it but I'm working on it.  I have made a lot of progress. I am a stylist and know how damaging chair talk can be.  I abstain 99% of the time.  If I say anything it's mild and not something that I would be ashamed of if it was repeated.  If I slip in my private life I have a rule that whatever I said, I must repeat to the person I said it about.
  Man up, ladies!  Say it if you mean it.  On another note there is a difference from expressing an opinion; eg; "I just don't enjoy the things she does, we haven't got a lot in common.  She's just not my cup of tea." Or launching a full on character assignation that leaves the listener almost feeling the subjects blood and guts all over them!  Don't say anyone has a fat ass or flappy bat wing arms and worst of all, chin hair, that's really low!  I'd also like you to please comment on this and remember life is hard enough without people tearing you apart when you're not there to defend your self.  I am thankful that I see this for what it is..a pimple on the ass of your personality.  I will very hard to eliminate this from mine....Say what you mean, mean what you say, but don't say it mean....

Elle